By Thabo Letsatsi
This particular question has always been a problem of mine for years and I always wanted to know how most men feel about it, so I started asking my friends and that is when I discovered the truth about this common minor problem for a lot of men out there…Ladies, the truth of the matter is that most men really don’t feel comfortable kissing you after you have just performed oral sex on him for a good 4-8 minutes, reason why? Well, it varies and come to think of it, the truth of the matter is that you’re blowing my dick right? So I shouldn’t have a problem with kissing you afterwards because is my dick and I know is clean right? So I can’t display any sign of disgust or immaturity after you have just sucked on my very own penis and refuse to kiss you right? How insulting of me.
I wish it was that easy but is not, well for most men out there I know is not and there’s really no strong supporting fact that can back up as to why you don’t want to kiss your girl after she has just sucked on your dick, trust me I know because I have tried going that route of not kissing her afterwards and it became a major issue that even threats of the whole sexual act being stopped right there were uttered, Serious stuff I tell you. Me myself I decided to come up with my own Rules & Regulations, my own Terms & Conditions that I will only kiss a girl after she’s just performed oral sex on me if we’re together on a serious note and I plan on building with her but if I’m just smashing and you go down on me, SORRY I WILL NOT KISS YOU! *Drops mic*
By Zilo February 11, 2014 - 11:54 am
I concur, with exceptions…
The only time when I (and I speak for myself) feel like not kissing after a blow job is only when I’m not in the mood or not very ready for sexual intimacy so I become “generally” self conscious around my privates parts (the yuck things about it generally), her privates and things I don’t like. But when I’m in the mood I kiss and lick anywhere on her body whether that part came into contact with mine or not.
By Shmiggels February 19, 2014 - 9:50 pm
Lost the fight long ago on this one. She verbally instructed me ” No kissie kissie, no dickie licky” my last blowie was about ten years ago. I am happily married for 20 years now and found out the secret to life obey the wife and your days shall be lengthened and much more happier too.